Sounds like a stupid question right? Because we all fairly much know that we can do that.
So how about this then…………
Think of all the things in your life that you’re not quite happy with, that bring you down. The things that make your life less sparkly and shiny than you think it should be.
- Your boss is an idiot
- You’re not being picked for the team
- You’re overweight
- You’re unfit
- You can’t get a
What if you had the ability to change all of that? You know where I’m going with this one by now….right?
Guess what…..YOU CAN.
So why the hell do you spend your time bleating on about how unfair it is?
If your boss is an idiot and makes you that sad then leave.
If you’re not being picked for the team , train harder or find a new team at your level.
Overweight? Jog and eat less.
Unfit? Jog and eat less.
A sexless social pariah? Jog and eat less…..oh and get a haircut whilst you’re at it.
The thing is that we are forgetting our own personal responsibility for our lives. We like to accept when things go right that we are the cause, but the moment things go wrong – rather than do something about it we bitch about how unfair it is, how it is our boss/parents/friends/men’s fault.
And you know what? It isn’t. It is your fault and your fault alone.
What’s more the really great thing is that you can make it all good. If only you’d get off your whingey lard arse for a couple of minutes and do something about it.
But that would be too much like hard work right? It is always easier being the victim… just that when you are, your life sucks. And you’re even responsible for that too.